Romans 12: 3 - 8
What makes a great church? •Perhaps it refers to size. One problem: We all know that not every big church is a great church and many truly great churches aren’t very big. •Perhaps it involves having a famous pastor. •It could refer to having large facilities-a huge sanctuary and an enormous parking lot. •Might refer to the number of programs in a church. Certainly impressive, even if it isn’t “great.” •Having a good reputation - ought to have a positive influence in the community. •“Market-driven” - in close touch with the wants and needs of the surrounding community.
What Makes a Healthy Church?
That’s an entirely different question, isn’t it? A church may be great in the eyes of the world but not be healthy at all, and many truly healthy churches may not be “great” in the eyes of other people. Greatness touches matters on the outside, while health touches the unseen realities of the heart. Romans 12:3-8 supplies 3 essential qualities of a healthy church. These aren’t the only ones we might think of, but they are vitally important because Paul focuses on 3 qualities that involve the way we look at ourselves, the way we look at each other, and the way we look at our own personal involvement. These 3 qualities allow us to evaluate the church as a whole and our personal lives.
1. Honest Evaluation v. 3
Paul uses one word 4 times - “think.” A literal translation - “Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought to think, but rather think of yourself with sober thinking.” Christians ought to have a realistic appreciation of themselves—not puffed up with conceit and not dragging themselves down into the mud.
The key word is humility - virtue - when you think you have it, you’ve lost it. Humility is knowing who you are in God. Pride comes from “super-thinking” about yourself, blowing your own horn too often, bragging about your accomplishments one too many times, dwelling on your own supposed greatness.
Against all that, Paul says, “Know yourself. Know your strengths and your weaknesses. Know what you can do and what you can’t do. Don’t live in a dream world thinking you can do it all.”
Some people are afraid to admit their weaknesses. So they constantly boast about their accomplishments, seeking to win approval by drawing attention to themselves. Others go to the opposite extreme, constantly bad-mouthing themselves. They do it, hoping you will say, “You’re really a nice person. Don’t be so hard on yourself.” Either way pride is the motivating factor.
But if you know who you are in God, you don’t have to brag and you don’t have to beg. You can just be yourself. Your gifts will make themselves evident sooner or later.
Gordon MacDonald – wrote about the widely-publicized removal of Ted Haggard as president of the National Association of Evangelicals and as pastor of New Life Church in Colorado Springs. “It seems to me that when people become leaders of outsized organizations and movements, when they become famous and their opinions are constantly sought by the media, we ought to begin to become cautious. The very drive that propels some leaders toward extraordinary levels of achievement is a drive that often keeps expanding even after reasonable goals and objectives have been achieved. That drive often strays into areas of excitement and risk that can be dangerous and destructive. Times like these call for prayer and honest self-examination. All we like sheep have gone astray, all have sinned and fallen short, and there but for the grace of God go I. His fall may be a blessing in disguise to the American church if it produces a healthy sense of self-examination and a new humility in all of our leaders.”
When Jesus said, "I will build my church," he told us that the church itself is his creation. He is the Lord of a building project that has been going on for 2000 years. Sometimes the Lord uses stones that crumble under pressure. But the church goes on because it is built on the Rock that cannot be shaken. We must not give in to despair. Let us join together and ask the Lord to raise up a generation of leaders who will lead with honesty, integrity, compassion, godly vision and Christlike character.
Know thyself! This will be the work of a lifetime, to truly know your strengths and weaknesses, to understand your temptations, to look at yourself with sober judgment, and to find a way to use what God has given you without falling into the twin traps of vanity and false humility. Pride builds walls. Humility builds bridges. It’s okay to say, “I don’t think I can do that.” It’s certainly better to say that than to pretend you can do it all. Healthy churches are filled with healthy Christians who have a healthy sense of their own limitations. They know they can’t do it all, so they don’t try to do what they can’t do.
Happy is the man who knows what he can’t do! Gives him more time to do what he can do! That’s what I mean by honest evaluation. Sets you free from the impossible burden of trying to do it all. Honest evaluation leads to the second important quality.
2. Faithful Cooperation v. 4, 5
The church is a body. It has many parts with many functions yet they all serve a larger purpose. 3 truths about your body and about God’s church: 1. Your body has many parts—visible and invisible. 2. Every part is important. 3. Every part depends on every other part. You never stop to think about your teeth until they start hurting. But when your teeth hurt, you can’t think about anything else. It’s the same with every part of your body. You don’t think about it until it hurts.
The principle involved is unity amidst diversity. We’re not all alike in the body of Christ. We have different functions, different gifts, different backgrounds, and different preferences. God didn’t cut us all from the same cloth. Especially important in Rome where Jews and Gentiles struggled to find a common ground inside the church. 2000 years later the struggle continues as black and whites, rich and poor, men and women, young and old, the contemporary crowd and the traditional crowd all struggle to find a way to work together in God’s church.
A healthy church is one made up of all kinds of people from many different backgrounds who join together based on a common faith in Jesus Christ. We don’t have to share the same politics, like the same music, eat the same food or drive the same cars. That’s not what it’s all about. What we do share, however, is a deep-seated love for Jesus Christ. That ought to be enough to hold us together in the hard times. Healthy churches are filled with people who work together in spite of their differences. Leads directly to the third mark of a healthy church.
3. Individual Participation v. 6 - 8
Paul says we all have different gifts. The Greek word for “gifts” is charismata - “charismatic” - good, biblical word. It simply means “grace gift.” All of God’s gifts are “grace gifts.” None of them come from within us, but all of them are given to us by God when we trust Christ as Saviour. We’re all charismatic Christians. It doesn’t mean you have to speak in tongues. Being charismatic in the biblical sense simply means that you have been given a spiritual gift by the Holy Spirit.
3 truths about spiritual gifts: 1. Every believer has at least one spiritual gift. 2. No believer has all the gifts. 3. Your spiritual gift enables you to serve the body of Christ effectively. Final mark of a healthy church: It’s a church where every believer is using his or her spiritual gifts for the good of the whole congregation.
Seven Spiritual Gifts
Other lists - total of about 19 different spiritual gifts. I think there are a number more.
1. Prophecy - ability to speak authoritative truth from God. Probably referred to receiving direct messages from the Holy Spirit. Refers to those people who can take the Word of God and make it shine.
2. Serving - general term that means to “wait on tables.” People with this gift prefer to work behind the scenes. They don’t seek the limelight and they don’t want to be rewarded for their work. They quietly go about their business, finding ways to help others.
3. Teaching - one of the most important spiritual gifts, widely distributed in the body of Christ. Teachers have the ability to take the Word of God, explain it clearly, and apply it to the lives of the hearers. This gift may be exercised in many venues—on Sunday morning, in a small group, or in one-on-one discussion.
4. Encouragement - those Christians who instinctively gravitate to those who are struggling to stay in the race. They see a friend who is faltering and they reach out a helping hand. This gift has enabled many people to keep on going when they would otherwise have quit. Thank God for the encouragers who put courage into us when we felt all hope was gone.
5. Giving - All Christians are commanded to give generously, but some believers have been specially gifted by God in this area. These Christians may or may not be wealthy, but they find special joy in sharing their resources with others. Very often, these folks do their work anonymously, giving large sums secretly, neither wanting nor needing any public thanks. Paul says they should give “generously.” The word actually means that they should give “as unto the Lord”—not for any earthly reward.
6. Leadership - means “to stand in front of a group.” This gift enables a person to take charge of a group or a meeting and lead that group in a positive, productive direction. People with this gift should do their work eagerly, gladly, with energy and full commitment.
7. Showing mercy - enables the believer to reach out to others who are hurting with the love of Christ. What a crucial ministry this is. The challenge for mercy-givers is to do their work “cheerfully.” The word means “with a smile on your face.” One translation puts it this way: “If you come with sympathy to sorrow, bring God’s sunshine on your face.” A long face and a sour disposition are no recommendation for the Christian faith. We’ve all been visited by well-meaning believers who made us feel better only because they finally left us. How much better to come with a smile and God’s love in our hearts. It will do so much more than being grumpy and unhappy.
Healthy Christians Make Healthy Churches
What makes a healthy church? The answer is not hard to find: Healthy Christians. After all, the church is more than the building or the organization. The church is the people and the people are the church. Healthy churches are made up of healthy Christians who share three crucial qualities: Honest Evaluation, Faithful Cooperation, Individual Participation.
That leads me to ask a penetrating question: What are you doing with the gift God gave you? Are you using it for his glory? Or are you letting it go to waste?
Let me put the question another way: Suppose that everyone in the church were like you, what kind of church would we have? Would we still be able to staff our ministries? Would we still support missionaries around the world? Would we still reach people for Jesus Christ? If it feels uncomfortable, perhaps the Holy Spirit wants you to do something about it.
If we want better churches, we need better people in our churches. That will not happen by accident. We all need the Lord desperately, and we need him much more than we know. Jesus Prayer - "Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner." Our churches will be better when we have better pastors and better church members, and that won't happen until we together cry out for mercy from the Lord. The happy news is that God delights to hear the cries of his people when they call out to him.
The bottom line is very simple. Before we pray for the world to be changed, let us pray for our churches to be changed. Before we pray for our churches to be changed, let us pray for our pastors to be changed. Before we pray for our pastors to be changed, let us pray that we ourselves might be changed. That's a prayer God will always be pleased to answer. Amen.